tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7647759773156918903.post2766158066527122389..comments2023-10-28T16:40:30.306+01:00Comments on Selina Kingston Is Forty: Tis The Season To Be Jolly (....apparently!)Selina Kingstonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01515746813047397411noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7647759773156918903.post-7214176161446348882009-12-22T02:57:33.588+00:002009-12-22T02:57:33.588+00:00Just a quick happy holidays to you, am heading awa...Just a quick happy holidays to you, am heading away soon for the break!The Sagittarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05513045101496737031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7647759773156918903.post-84276962486700633502009-12-16T14:54:34.044+00:002009-12-16T14:54:34.044+00:00Yup - stick with it for a while. For be aware that...Yup - stick with it for a while. For be aware that it might not work because a) you aren't ready yet or b) the therapist isn't the right one. More likely that you need to stick it out a bit longer, though.<br /><br />And well done for resisting temptation and keeping him in his place. Like you say, trying it on whilst his girlfriend is backstage - unbelievable!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7647759773156918903.post-75142901985645222862009-12-15T15:39:47.283+00:002009-12-15T15:39:47.283+00:00stay the course - this is only the beginning.
take...stay the course - this is only the beginning.<br />take responsibility for your own actions. own them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7647759773156918903.post-87737742060404527892009-12-15T00:46:33.428+00:002009-12-15T00:46:33.428+00:00I agree with the others, you have done well in tak...I agree with the others, you have done well in taking your life back. Hooray for you. Of course it's not easy, but it is precious.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7647759773156918903.post-46368213699081977492009-12-12T10:16:22.576+00:002009-12-12T10:16:22.576+00:00Good for you, giving that cretin the heave ho.
I t...Good for you, giving that cretin the heave ho.<br />I think this time of year is difficult at the best of times, so best not to be too hard on yourself. I assume it took years to get where you are and it won't be a five minute fix. Steve's right, you have the answers and when you're ready, willing and able you will have an "ah ha!" moment! Cheers ears,<br />AThe Sagittarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05513045101496737031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7647759773156918903.post-53963531963055855622009-12-11T15:40:43.573+00:002009-12-11T15:40:43.573+00:00"Why can't he just give me the answer...&..."Why can't he just give me the answer..." ah, Selina, because he is waiting for you to give you the answer...! ;-)<br /><br />As for Matt, sounds to me like you've got his measure at last. Season of goodwill...? Yes indeedy - you ought to feel proud of yourself and turn some of that goodwill inwards... you deserve it.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7647759773156918903.post-7405355243097116722009-12-11T11:18:18.134+00:002009-12-11T11:18:18.134+00:00Whta a shame you can't enjoy something you use...Whta a shame you can't enjoy something you used to love. I suppose too many factors complicate the singing now but maybe that will change. Do stick with the therapy. It is concerning that you feel he is not listening as that is his job and one pf the most worthwhile and constructive things about the therapeutic relationship is the feeling of being really listened to. The relationship, as with any, takes time to develop, so give it a chance for a but longer and see where it leads.<br />And take care!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com